Baldur’s Gate 3 Astarion Romance & Approval Guide

Astarion is one of the characters you can recruit and even potentially romance in Baldur’s Gate 3, but as always, you’ll need to make sure you’re picking the right dialogue choices to gain his approval. Here’s how to romance Astarion in Baldur’s Gate 3.

How to Get Astarion’s Approval in Baldur’s Gate 3

First off, it’s important that you have a good sense of what Astarion’s temperament is like in Baldur’s Gate 3 and the kind of behavior he gravitates toward for camp dialogue scenes or any other talking opportunities.

Generally speaking, he’s not exactly the most heroic or upstanding character in the game; he tends to be a little selfish. Anytime you encounter an Astarion dialogue choice, you must be more partial towards deceptive or sneaky-related selections. He also reacts more positively when you behave selfishly, or put your own interests before other people’s problems.

You’ll want to be a little mean or rude to other NPCs in general, and you’ll gain Astarion’s approval in no time. Once you get his approval rating to High, you’ll be able to romance him. Do keep in mind that as you’re trying to court Astarion, your responses and actions may also cause your rating with other characters to dip.

Players can follow this Astarion approval guide to increase their rating:

• Expressing appreciation for the fine arts
• Aligning yourself with the more evil factions, such as goblins and devils, and even Kagha in the early Druids quest
• Allowing Astarion to indulge in his bloodlust
• Showing support for his vampiric nature
• Being cruel to those weaker than you

On the flip side, here are some things that Astarion disapproves of:

• Showing concern for others, especially those weaker than you
• Showing disapproval towards him and his condition

Those who increase Astarion’s approval will unlock more camp dialogue intervals and the mirror scene, where you can show off your love for him by complimenting his appearance a few times.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur’s Gate 3

In the events leading up to the quest titled Rescue Druid Halsin, make sure to respond correctly in various key events, as listed below:

• Agree that using the mind flayer tadpole’s power is a good idea.
• Allow Astarion to suck your blood at camp.
• Offer support and encouragement when Astarion opens up about his past.
• Help the goblins at the goblin camp in Act 1.

Doing all of the above will boost your approval rating with Astarion, and while you don’t have to hit all those flags in order to romance him, they’ll certainly help.

After finishing Rescue Druid Halsin, you’ll take part in a celebration at camp and unlock a few Astarion dialogue options. You must choose the following selections to increase his approval:

• “Really? Saving lives is awful?”
• “True, the goblins would have thrown a wilder party.”
• “And what’s your idea of ‘a little fun’?”
• Alright, let’s do it. I’ll see you later.

After ending the conversation, head to a bedroll and choose the option to go to bed with Astarion. Choose the following options to continue down the romance path:

• “You don’t have me yet.”
• “And what do you want?”
• Nod.

And there you have it. That’s how to romance Astarion and gain his approval in Baldur’s Gate 3. Be sure to search for Twinfinite for more tips and information on the game.